Why keep crying or why keep trying, if a man puts you thru so much why stick around. I'm saying things happens for a reason. I have a friend and we talk a lot but the things we talk about I keep telling her if he hurts you so much have you crying all the time do she really thinks he loves her.
I have know right asking her that but its the truth, I have no room for mistakes when it comes to me and man. So I wanted to see what she would say she tells me she don't know and I ask why stay if you think he don't love you she says because of the kids I say that's an excuse.
Being alone is sometimes the best thing so you can have time to see what you are doing wrong in your life and start loving yourself more then the next relationship is going to be even better. I really hope I wasn't wrong for telling her that.
You can only take so much before you pop. I look at it like this, whether it is a man or a woman, if you don't want that person LEAVE. Why waste your time or theirs. If you don't want someone set them free and stop stringing them alone. Give it time and be patient and I assure her the right person will come alone, but it also come with having faith. BELIEVE AND FAITH
ReplyDeleteI agree with you. I believe we all need to establish an awesome positive self esteem in ourselves and our own life before we should put all we have into a relationship. That is what I am doing now. I want to establish stability in myself and for my kids, before I add a man to our lives. This way I will add to his life and he will add to mine.
ReplyDelete